COMMUNITY TAKEAWAYS
"The Structure of Belonging"
Community written by Peter Block provides support for leaders who are willing to take on the task of building a stronger community and connections within the community. Everyone of us "belongs" to a community, however as Block explains there are two meaning of belonging to a community. One "as to be related to and part of something" the second is to "act as a creator or owner." I really like how he also refers to the "structure" as a way of "building" and "constructing" these communities to create a better place to live and work.
Take Away #1
"The Stuck Community"
In order to make a real difference we need to look at doing things differently. We need to look at ways to lead others to create new solutions and not lay blame on someone for what has happened. Our communities become "stuck" because of fear and fault. We need to look at ways to identify the problems, fix them and create an environment that citizens are able to change the community. I am a firm believer in are you part of the "problem" or "solution?" If you are not part of the solution it is my belief you are part of the problem because you are not working towards the solution. Moving forward and growing. I see this thought process happening in a "stuck community." One that doesn't look at finding a solution.
Take Away #2
"Questions are more Transforming than Answers"
Asking the right questions is more important than the answers we provide is something that stuck out in my mind while reading this chapter. Questions provide in depth conversations that keep the dialog going and more meaning. One portion of this chapter stuck out the most to me is when Block mentioned that people become "impatient with questions and hungry for answers" because the questions have "no meaning." We often get wrapped up in "argument, explanation, analysis and defensive conversations which takes away from communities coming together. I have witnessed many staff exhibit this type of behavior when they are presented opportunities to change and asked various questions. They provide quick answers to questions and not really look at the big picture. Another aspect of this chapter that I enjoyed was the list of questions that have little power when trying to bring communities together. They carry little power. In order to engage people of the community it is important to have questions that come with power. These type of questions "confront their freedom," "engage them in their freedom and co-create a future possibility." Also creating an "advice free zone" is critical in this process because advice weakens the process and stops the conversation.
As I reflect upon this book and my experiences in a leadership role I realized there are many positive and negative hings I can reflect upon to help me in the process of building a stronger community. It is imperative to connect with the entire community or the majority to enhance the opportunity to create a stronger community and build relationships that will ultimately help our school grow. It is important to get involved in some community organizations that will strengthen the relationship between the school and entire community.
John,
ReplyDeleteI think your Take Away #2 hit on the spot of what I learned from this book. Asking the right questions is very important. More important than the answers. These questions lead us to a deeper understanding of problems or issues. With out these questions we may not understand the full depth of a problem or issue. It also helps us prevent from having quick fixes that may just make the problem bigger.
Cory Hinke
John,
ReplyDeleteI, too, liked your second Take Away. My brother, the lawyer, used to say that he who asks the questions wins the debate. Leave it to a lawyer to be competitive and try to win. You, on the other hand, summarize Block so well. The questions are not asked to win or to be contentious. They are asked to guide the conversation in positive ways. They are asked to allow dissent to be expressed. Block does say that asking the right questions is important. That must be a trick. It would seem that the frame of mind that you express in this Take Away would lead you to success in that endeavor. It would be neat to see Block lead a small group. Asking questions is such a spontaneous activity that it would probably be a very demanding activity. Great answer.
Karl
Your first take away really hits home with me. As I shared in class, I am living in a community that is currently stuck. Your comment about "fear and fault" is so true. When leaders, or so called leaders, use fear and place blame it simply begins to divide a community, not strengthen it. Your comment, "If you are not part of the solution it is my belief you are part of the problem because you are not working towards the solution" resonates with me. I feel exactly the same. Great final comments about building relationships is also right on. I enjoyed reading your post.
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